Friday, February 03, 2017

Same song, new verse

Okay, I know I've written about this at least twice before,but now I've figured out what my *real* issue is.

I have a friend who comes to visit this area occasionally, but she doesn't come to visit ME.
She has done this numerous times, and she doesn't even tell me she's here. I have written how bunched my undies have gotten over it.

 I understand it's a free country and she can visit or not visit whoever she damn well pleases.
And there are times I go into and out of a city without visiting everyone I know who lives there.
I get it.  That's fine.

But I've finally hit on what really upsets me:
Even though she doesn't tell me she's coming, and even though she doesn't plan to see me, SHE TAGS ME ON FACEBOOK ANYWAY.
What am I supposed to do with that?

"Hey, you busy?  Surprise!  I'm right over here!  See me?  Yeah?  Well, don't come over 'cause I'm having fun with these other friends that I drove 400 miles to see, not you. 'kay, this was fun!  Bye!"
(I may be paraphrasing somewhat.)

You're right.
I need to stop... referring to her as my friend.

::adult Roses sits next to middle-school-aged Roses::


Jessica P said...

That is SO WHACK.
Why on earth would she tag you.

Shoshanah Lee Marohn said...

How rude!